Ngaba lixesha lokuba uthengele umntwana wakho ibhayisekile yokuqala? Ibhayisekile yaBantwana isetyenziselwa abantwana ukuzonwabisa, ukhuphiswano, okanye iinjongo zokuhamba. Ububanzi bayo bevili buqala ukusuka kwi-intshi ezi-14 ukuya kwii-intshi ezingama-24 kubantwana abakwiminyaka yobudala emi-4-12. I-kindergartner, pre-teen kunye nabantu abadala abancinci- kwaye lonke ulutsha oluphakathi, luya kuthanda.
Imakethi yebhayisikile ikhule ngokuhamba kweminyaka ngokwazisa izinto ezahlukeneyo kunye nokwenza izinto ngokuqhubekayo. Namhlanje, kukho iintlobo ezininzi zebhayisikile yaBantwana efumanekayo kunangaphambili. Oku kuthetha ukuba unokukhetha okungcono, ikwonyusa ukubakho kokuthenga ibhayisekile engeyiyo okanye esemgangathweni ongaphantsi okanye eyilwe kakubi. Ngaba uyazi ukuba ungayikhetha njani ibhayisekile yaBantwana?
Malunga nemiba yobungakanani bebhayisikile yaBantwana:
Ngelixa iibhayisekile ezindala zikhethwe ngokobungakanani besakhelo, iibhayisekile zabantwana zilinganiswe ngokobungakanani bevili.
Kwakhona, ukufaka ibhayisekile ebantwaneni kungaphezulu kokumisela ubudala nobude babo. Kuya kufuneka uvavanye ukulungelelanisa kunye namandla okukhwela. Umzekelo, abantwana abade abaswele ukuzithemba ngebhayisikile benza ngcono kakhulu kwiibhayisikile ezincinci kuba baziva bekhululekile kwaye belawula.
Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu ekuthatheni isigqibo kukhuseleko. Ufuna ibhayisekile ebavumela ukuba bakhwele ngokulula kulawulo olupheleleyo. Ke, iBhayisikile yaBantwana kufuneka ihlengahlengiswe ukuze ilingane ukukhula komntwana.
Ixesha Post: Dec-15-2020